Cultivating
Erotic Intelligence
in Life & Sex

I help women cultivate erotic intelligence for deeper connection, aliveness, and pleasure in both life and sex.

When Something Feels Missing

My work supports women who feel disconnected from their bodies or desires and want connection, pleasure, and aliveness, but are not sure how to access it or where to begin.

Many women overthink, push through, or assume this is just how life is now. They function, keep moving forward, while feeling flat or distant inside.

Life and sex are intertwined. How we relate to our bodies and desires shapes how connected and alive we feel in life and in sex.

This disconnection is learned and can be changed.

I Support Women To

Strengthen self-image & transform subconscious patterns

Shift mindset habits

that create disconnection

Clarify desire, boundaries, and sexual needs

Learn to listen to and trust bodies

Experience sex that feels connected and aligned

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Erotic intelligence is the capacity to stay connected to desire, pleasure, and aliveness as you live your life.

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Lisette creates a space where self-discovery around sexuality, sensuality and intimacy can flourish. She offers practical tools while also inviting profound personal growth. She created a space where I felt completely safe to slow down, reconnect with myself, and truly tune into my body. Her presence is both grounding and freeing, allowing me to explore intimacy and pleasure without pressure or judgment. Through her guidance, I gained deeper self-awareness and permission to honor what I truly want and need to feel sensually alive.

- Client, San Francisco, CA

Lisette's compassionate approach created a safe space for me to explore my limiting beliefs. Her insightful questions helped me uncover my inner strengths and develop practical strategies for managing stress. Now, I approach challenges with renewed confidence and clarity, and I'm more empowered to go after all aspects of my personal and professional life.

- Client, San Rafael, CA

I knew before working with Lisette that I had a deep desire to explore new ways of engaging with my whole self in an intimate way, but I was scared and stuck in old routines on my own. I was nervous and curious going in and deeply grateful for Lisette's style, flow, and warm virtual embrace during each session. Her intuition, deep care and extensive knowledge were a shining touchstone as she guided me through vulnerable and tender places. I felt seen, safe, and honored. I would recommend her to ANYone looking to open their hearts up to themselves and to others with grace, strength, and hope. I came away with empowering skills and insight that I am thrilled to have as resources moving forward.

- Client, Oakland, CA

An Embodied, Holistic Approach

My work integrates sexuality, self-image, mindset, and embodied practice to support meaningful, lasting change.

Rather than fixing or forcing desire, we focus on restoring connection to the body and inner experience.

Through this work, women cultivate erotic intelligence, the capacity to stay connected to desire, pleasure, and aliveness in a way that informs how they live, love, and choose.

This grounded approach supports greater confidence, self-trust, and ease in intimacy, relationships, creativity, and everyday life.

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The Intimate Journey

Sharing a link to a 20-minute video I created for participants in my Embodiment Practice Series about creating a Future Self Blueprint. (Link in bio☝)

This video is an example of me putting the Future Self Blueprint into action. It is unedited, unscripted, and a real example of me stepping into the future version of myself while also being completely okay with the fact that I am not 100% there yet.

I have some big goals for 2026, and I am actively using my Future Self Blueprint to help me move toward those goals. In this video, I share an example of what that looks like in my own life.

- One of the reasons I love this tool is that so often when we set a goal, we focus almost entirely on the actions we need to take and forget about the thoughts and feelings that fuel those actions.

- To create the results we want, we have to become the version of ourselves who creates those results. We have to practice intentionally thinking, feeling, and acting like our future self BEFORE WE HAVE achieved the goal.

This tool and process help us do that.

➡️ This tool and process also help us to become aware of what we are currently thinking and feeling, and how we are unintentionally holding ourselves back.

➡️ It also helps us to see why we feel discomfort when we are making changes and going after our goals. For me, this is one of the most important things about this.

📩 Check it out (Link in bio☝), and I would love to hear your thoughts/questions. Send me a message, and I am happy to reply to your questions and help guide you through the process.

P.S. This is exactly the work I do with clients.

💛 I help people go from where they are now to where they want to be, navigate the discomfort and messy middle that comes with growth, and build the thoughts, feelings, and actions that support the results they want to create.

💛 If you are interested in learning more, reach out, and we can set up a call.

#FutureSelf #PersonalGrowth #MindsetMatters #lifeandsexcoach

✨ Amazing Women Series: drnancydome — Speaker, Author & Bridge Builder | Summer 2026 Update ✨

🎉 In honor of 5 years of the Amazing Women Series, this summer I am celebrating by sharing updates from the Amazing Women I have featured over the years, PLUS giving an introduction and sneak peek of some of the women I will feature this fall.

I asked each woman to share what they are currently working on or creating and what they are most proud of. I'll let them share in their own words.

I first featured drnancydome in 2022. Check out the original posts in the comments below. 👇

➡️ drnancydome is a renowned speaker, author, coach, and CEO/Co-Founder of @epocheducation, whose transformative approach helps educational agencies and businesses across the country navigate complex topics, build bridges, and work together for inclusive, impactful change.

➡️ drnancydome 's book, Glimmers, is now available. In this powerful memoir-in-essays, she reflects on the experiences, relationships, and moments that shaped her understanding of herself and the world while inviting readers to approach their own stories with reflection, compassion, and greater awareness.

✨ What are you currently working on or creating?

"This is an interesting time for me. I am trying to figure out what this new chapter will look like as I consider the future of my business and how I want to spend the next 20 years."

"I love my work but feel like I am on the precipice of something more, something different that invites me to access other talents."

"I am painting, singing, and traveling... now to connect it all to my passion of being of service." 😉

✨ What is something you feel proud of?

"I just completed my third book, and this one is a little different. It is a memoir, so highly intimate. It was something I had been wanting to write but was not sure how."

"The process itself was worth the journey as it has led to not only my healing but that of my family as well. We are having conversations that we have never had before and finding forgiveness and grace through those interactions."

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#AmazingWomenSeries #AuthorSpotlight #ImpactfulChange

🦄 Amazing Women Series: Ayesis Clay, M.Ed. — Educator, Theatre Artist & Storyteller | Summer 2026 Update 🦄

🎉 In honor of 5 years of the Amazing Women Series, this summer I am celebrating by sharing updates from the Amazing Women I have featured over the years, PLUS giving an introduction & sneak peek of some of the women I will feature this fall.

I asked each woman to share what they are currently working on or creating & what they are most proud of. I'll let them share in their own words.

I first featured Ayesis Clay in 2022.

➡️ Ayesis is a nationally recognized educator, consultant, & multidisciplinary theatre artist with more than 24 years of experience supporting educational communities.

➡️ Through her company, @sculptedclay , she creates learning experiences that help educators navigate burnout, reconnect with their passion, and remember that their humanity matters too.

✨ What are you currently working on or creating?

"Right now, I'm creating experiences that help schools make room for the emotional lives of the people inside them.

🦄 Through my Unicorn Teacher Experience, I use my solo show, Sculpting Clay or How I Became Mother of Unicorns, as a live keynote and facilitated reflection experience for educators who are carrying burnout, compassion fatigue, and the invisible weight of school culture. It gives staff a chance to breathe, reflect, reconnect, & remember that their humanity matters too.

I'm also expanding Standing on the Edge, a professional learning community that uses theatre, storytelling, & creative reflection to help educators process the challenges they face and build stronger, more connected school communities.

🦄 In the next two months, I'm also leading Inside Out, a creative wellness intensive for arts educators, and Project TIGI, a youth theatre intensive where young people use Antigone as a springboard to explore justice, grief, courage, and voice.
Both projects are close to my heart because they remind me that theatre is more than performance. It is a way for people to tell the truth, build connection, and imagine something better together."

Learn more 👇

#AmazingWomenSeries #EducatorWellbeing ##TheatreInEducation

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